一个姑娘除了结婚以外，总喜欢不时地尝点儿失恋的滋味。那可以使她们有点儿东西去想想，又可以在朋友面前出点风头。——简·奥斯汀《傲慢与偏见》

曲名：暗涌
歌手：王菲
作词：林夕
作曲：陈辉阳
所属专辑：玩具
发行年代：1997
风格：粤语流行
有网友这样评价林夕和王菲：「夕爷毕竟是文化人，文化人最要脸面，可以在爱情里低到尘埃，然而姿态决不能太丑。王菲的飞扬、无辜与清浅，才合了夕爷的傲气——我爱你，是我先输，但你想听我哭哭啼啼洒狗血么，抱歉，自我亦占我一半，我没有的谁亦有，我也懒去接收，你可感到不满？」

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小说《傲慢与偏见》经典摘录

文/简·奥斯汀

1、It is a truth universally acknowledged,that a single man in possession of a good fortune must be in want of a wife.

有钱的单身汉总要娶位太太，这是一条举世公认的真理。

2、One cannot know what a man really is by the end of a fortnight. But if we do not venture, somebody else will.

跟一个人相处了两个星期，不可能就此了解他究竟是怎样一个人。不过，要是我们不去尝试尝试，别人可少不了要尝试的。

3、I would wish not to be hasty in censuring any one; but I always speak what I think.

我倒希望不要轻易责难一个人，可是我一向都是想到什么就说什么。

4、But if a woman is partial to a man, and does not endeavour to conceal it, he must find it out.

假如一个女人爱上了一个男人，只要女方不故意瞒住男方，男方一定会看得出的。

5、But to be so easily seen through I am afraid is pitiful.

不过，这么容易被人看透，那恐怕也是件可怜的事吧。

6、 It does not necessarily follow that a deep, intricate character is more or less estimable than such a one as yours.

一个深沉复杂的人，未必比你这样的人更难叫人捉摸。

7、To yield without conviction is no compliment to the understanding of either.

如果不问是非，随随便便就听从，恐怕对于两个人全不能算是一种恭维吧。

8、A regard for the requester would often make one readily yield to a request without waiting for arguments to reason one into it.

要知道，一个人如果尊重别人提出的要求，通常都是用不着说服就会心甘情愿地听从的。

9、Perhaps that is not possible for any one. But it has been the study of my life to avoid those weaknesses which often expose a strong understanding to ridicule.Such as vanity and pride.

或许谁都还会有这些弱点，否则可真糟了，绝顶的聪慧也要招人嘲笑了。我一生都在研究该怎么样避免这些弱点。例如虚荣和傲慢就是属于这一类弱点。

10、 My good opinion once lost is lost for ever.

我对于某个人一旦没有了好感，就永远没有好感。

11、There is, I believe, in every disposition a tendency to some particular evil, a natural defect, which not even the best education can overcome.

我，相信一个人不管是怎样的脾气，都免不了有某种短处，这是一种天生的缺陷，即使受教育受得再好，也还是克服不了。

12、And your defect is a propensity to hate every body.

对什么人都感到厌恶，这就是你的缺陷。

13、In such cases as these, I believe the established mode is to express a sense of obligation. But I cannot.I have never desired your good opinion, and you have certainly bestowed it most unwillingly. I'm sorry to cause pain to anyone, but it was unconsciously done,

我相信碰上像这种情形 一般人都会表示感激 但我无法这么做 .我从来不曾渴求你的看重 而你这么做是心不甘情不愿 ,我很遗憾造成别人的痛苦 但我完全是无心的,也希望很快会烟消云散。

14、Some people even did not intend to do bad things, can in fact it can still do wrong, misery consequences. Every careless and don't see other people's well-intentioned, and the lack of a decisive person, all similar to harm them.

有些人即使没有存心做坏事，可事实上事情仍会做错，引起不幸的后果。凡是粗心大意、看不出别人的好心好意，而且缺乏果断的人，都一样能害人。

15、Pretend modesty often is nonsense, sometimes just is the beat around the bush boast.

假装谦虚往往就是信口开河，有时候简直是拐弯抹角的自夸。

16、Married life is happiness, completely is a chance to question.

婚姻生活是否幸福，完全是个机会问题。

17、A pair of lovers premarital understand each other well or character special similar, this does not mean that after their marriage can be happy. They are often get later distance farther and farther, each other troubles. Since you have with this person for life, to his faults know as little as possible.

一对爱人婚前彼此非常了解或性格特别相似，这并不能说明他们婚后会幸福。他们往往是弄到后来距离越来越远，彼此烦恼。你既然得和这个人过一辈子，对他的缺点知道得越少越好。

18、Only deep love will persuade me to marry.Which is why i'll end up an old maid.

只有真挚的爱才能让我结婚，这就是为什么我终将会成为一位老姑娘。

19、Not all of us can offord to be romantic.

并不是我们所有的人都会拥有浪漫。

20、You must know. Surely you must know it was all for you.

你必须知道，你一定要知道，这一切都是为了你所做的。

21、My affections and wishes have not changed.

我的心愿和情感依然如旧。

22、He is not vicious, and as far as fortune goes, it's an eligible match.

他不是坏人。就财产而言，他也是适合的对象。

23、There are few people whom I really love, and even fewer of whom I think well.

我真心爱的人不多，看得起的人更少。

24、The more I see of the world, the more I am dissatisfied with it.

对这个世界看得越多，我就越不满。