如果感恩之心是幸福的诱因，那么率真的态度也许是进步之母。即使是刺耳的话也以谦虚的态度聆听，当改之事就在今日立即改正，不拖到明日。这种率真的心态能提高我们的能力，改善我们的心智。——稻盛和夫《活法》

《I Can't Make You Love Me》，选自Sophie Milman的专辑《Take Love Easy》。

继2004年一鸣惊人代表作、个人首张专辑「苏菲·蜜儿」(Sophie Milman)席卷全球广受各界好评，荣登各大畅销排行榜轻松超过十万张的销售佳绩，苏菲·蜜儿(Sophie Milman)一跃成为新生代的爵士小天后，是当今全世界歌坛最受欢迎的女声之一！在过去的三年时间里，除了但任蒙特娄爵士音乐节(Montreal Jazz Festival)封面人物的殊荣与纽约JVC爵士音乐节的压轴演出，苏菲·蜜儿开始了全球上百场的售票巡回演唱会，足迹遍及欧美英日等各地、票房爆满长红！2007年的秋天，苏菲·蜜儿与她的专属乐团受邀前来台北、高雄、香港、广州、上海等五地演唱；饱满高亢如丝缎般美丽的歌声，优异的现场演唱功力，甜美清秀佳人充满着异国浪漫的性感，精通英、法、俄与犹太文等四种语言，苏菲·蜜儿兼具美貌与实力，是近年来加拿大进军全球乐坛最耀眼璀璨的新生代爵士女声！ （网络整理）

试听：I Can't Make You Love Me - Sophie Milman

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歌词：
Turn down the lights, turn down the bed
Turn down these voices inside my head
Lay down with me, tell me no lies
Just hold me close, don't patronize,don't patronize me
Cause i can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel something it won't
Here in the dark, in these lonely hours
I will lay down my heart and i'll feel the power
But you won't, no you won't
Cause i can't make you love me, if you don't

I'll close my eyes, then i won't see
The love you don't feel when you're holding me
Morning will come and i'll do what's right
Just give me till then to give up this fight
And i will give up this fight
Cause i can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel something it won't
Here in the dark, in these lonely hours
I will lay down my heart and i'll feel the power
But you won't, no you won't
Cause i can't make you love me, if you don't